jane_and.the_dragon

I just came to the realization I am a bit self centered. I was invited to a child's birthday party today. It is at an arcade, and I have spent the past 2 hrs wondering if the outfit I picked out is ok for the event. THEN IT HIT ME! It does not matter a bit what I have on long as it is clean and not ripped up ( although if it did have holes in it they may think I am in style, because a lot of kids still are into that ripped jeans thing lol). What I have on is of no concern as it is not my birthday or my party. All the attention should be on the birthday girl and probably the games as it is at an arcade lol. It is weird it took me so long to realize , it is not about me, so what I put on has no importance. I have realized what some of my friends have said about me in the past is true. Some have told me I tend to make things about me. It should not have taken me so long to realize it was true. I should have gotten the message when more then one of my friends said it. You know what they say about not being able to teach an old dog new tricks? Well apparently it is hard to teach an old woman new ideas too. :) , but the fact I am seeing it shows I am not totally lost .